How To Speak To the Elderly About Driving Safety

People aged 65 and older are at higher risk or injury and death if they are in a car crash due to their fragility. There are certain conditions related to aging, such as fading or impaired eyesight or hearing or drowsiness-inducing medications, that may make elderly drivers less able to drive safely.

Over 200,000 drivers 65 and older were injured in a vehicle collision in 2016. Over 3,500 were killed. On average, because of the increases in longevity, senior citizens become unable to drive safely in roughly the last 7 to 10 years of their lives.

Only 17% of Senior Citizens Have Spoken to Family Members About Car Safety

It’s important for senior citizens to plan for what the Automobile Association of America (AAA) terms “driving retirement” before a precipitating incident such as an injury or crash occurs. Yet AAA statistics indicate that only 17 of senior citizens have had discussions with their families about safe driving as they age. In other words, almost 83% of drivers aged 65 and older haven’t had any conversations about safe driving and aging, either their family members or doctors.

Even the senior citizens who have had these conversations have overwhelmingly (15%) had them only when a vehicle accident or violation of traffic laws has occurred.

Clearly, the safer course is to actively plan for the eventuality of an older person not being safe while driving or able to drive before it occurs.

How to Have a About Driving with an Elder

But family members may not know how to broach or discuss this issue. The AAA recommends the following.

1. Be proactive and positive

Try to initiate a conversation early. Be supportive and positive about ways to keep your older loved one safe as they drive. Research other possible forms of transportation.

2. Focus on specifics

Don’t generalize about the ability of older drivers. Focus on your loved one’s skills and abilities.

3. Have a one-to-one conversation

A trusted family member should speak to the senior citizen. You want to avoid feelings of anger or anxiety.

4. Stick to facts

Don’t discuss the situation as if all older drivers need to be stopped. The AAA recommends focusing on specifics about the senior citizen’s situation, like eyesight or prescriptions that may affect driving and make it less than safe.

5. Include the senior citizen

Senior citizens need to be active in making a plan for driving retirement. Don’t dictate, but plan jointly.

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Additional Resources:

  1. Automobile Association of America. AAA Newsroom. “More than 80 Percent of Older Drivers Aren’t Talking About Driving Safety.” August 14, 2018.
  2. Automobile Association of America. Driver Planning Agreement.